Wednesday, December 28, 2011

The Happiness Project

My book group's November book was The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin.  Being in retail marketing, November is a busy season, and the book never got off my "wish list" on Amazon.  Luckily, my husband is sneaky, and hacked my Amazon account and bought the book for me for Christmas.  While on our trip over Christmas, I picked it up, and could not put it down!


Gretchen Rubin is on a quest to become happier.  She sets up a year of resolutions that will supposedly make her a happier person.  She resolves to be less snappy to her husband, more patient with her small children, clean out her closets, make new friends, and much much more.  Every month she takes on a new task.  In December, she tries to be perfect at all of her resolutions.  At the end, she realizes that everything that makes her happier was already in her life, but she had to appreciate it, focus on the small things, and chill out.  All of the things in her happiness project were already in her life, but she had to spend time finding or re-finding what she loved and what made her happy.

Many times, I find these types of books whiny and author-focused.  But I could really relate to Gretchen and her quest to be happier.  It wasn't that she was unhappy or unsatisfied in her life, but she felt there was something more.  Don't we all?  Don't we have a feeling that something is missing?  But Gretchen realizes that things in her life weren't missing, she was missing the important things that were already occurring in her life.

One of the ideas that really resonated with me was "the days are long, but the years are short."  Your days may be filled with meetings, appointments, work, taking care of the kids, etc.  Your day may feel 48 hours long and you still may not have enough hours to check off everything on your list.  But years pass by in the blink of and eye.  I know with me, having a job that requires event planning, I feel like, "I just did this!" but a whole year has passed!  Kids grow up, years pass.  "The days are long, but the years are short."  This makes me want to savor every moment - every dinner Austin and I spend time cooking and eating, road trip we take, moments spent with our families - they won't last forever.  And if that means I'm more laid back, less snappy, a little disorganized, spending time doing the things I enjoy are worth every minute.

As I begin the new year, I won't be starting my own happiness project, but you can bet I'm going to be more conscious of snarky comments, and try to respond to people with positive comments.  I'm going to eat better, exercise more, and make time for the small things - even when my plate is full.  And you bet I'm going to clean some closets :)   The days are long, but the years are short.


katie






Sunday, December 25, 2011

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas from Katie, Austin, & Lila Belle

Thursday, December 22, 2011

2012 Reading List

I LOVE to read.  But of course, y'all already knew that!  So, what is on my reading list for 2012?  I'm so glad you asked!  I keep a moleskin book full of books that I would like to read - and I just go through and pick one out.  But, I tend to get a little sidetracked and pick up a book not on my list every once in a while.  For this post, I've picked 12 books I'm going to read this year - one for every month.  Of course, I'll read more, but this will be a good start - and will attempt to keep me focused!  I'm not promising to read them in this order, but here they are...(Descriptions from Amazon)


To five-year-old-Jack, Room is the world. . . . It's where he was born, it's where he and his Ma eat and sleep and play and learn. At night, his Ma shuts him safely in the wardrobe, where he is meant to be asleep when Old Nick visits.
Room is home to Jack, but to Ma it's the prison where she has been held for seven years. Through her fierce love for her son, she has created a life for him in this eleven-by-eleven-foot space. But with Jack's curiosity building alongside her own desperation, she knows that Room cannot contain either much longer.
Room is a tale at once shocking, riveting, exhilarating--a story of unconquerable love in harrowing circumstances, and of the diamond-hard bond between a mother and her child.





Unlike his sprawling masterpiece, Underworld, DeLillo's 13th novel is short and tightly focused, indeed almost claustrophobic. Most of the action takes place inside a "prousted" (cork-lined) stretch limo, as the reclusive financial wizard Eric Packer is chauffeured across Manhattan for a haircut. Thanks to a presidential visit, antiglobalization demonstrations, and a celebrity funeral, this journey takes up most of the day. Stuck in traffic, Packer anxiously monitors the value of the yen on the limo's computer. Using the car as his office, he summons advisors from nearby shops and restaurants.





Thirteen-year-old Ava Bigtree has lived her entire life at Swamplandia!, her family’s island home and gator-wrestling theme park in the Florida Everglades. But when illness fells Ava’s mother, the park’s indomitable headliner, the family is plunged into chaos; her father withdraws, her sister falls in love with a spooky character known as the Dredgeman, and her brilliant big brother, Kiwi, defects to a rival park called The World of Darkness. As Ava sets out on a mission through the magical swamps to save them all, we are drawn into a lush and bravely imagined debut that takes us to the shimmering edge of reality.





In 1940, Iris James is the postmistress in coastal Franklin, Massachusetts. Iris knows more about the townspeople than she will ever say, and believes her job is to deliver secrets. Yet one day she does the unthinkable: slips a letter into her pocket, reads it, and doesn't deliver it.
Meanwhile, Frankie Bard broadcasts from overseas with Edward R. Murrow. Her dispatches beg listeners to pay heed as the Nazis bomb London nightly. Most of the townspeople of Franklin think the war can't touch them. But both Iris and Frankie know better...
The Postmistress is a tale of two worlds-one shattered by violence, the other willfully naïve-and of two women whose job is to deliver the news, yet who find themselves unable to do so. Through their eyes, and the eyes of everyday people caught in history's tide, it examines how stories are told, and how the fact of war is borne even through everyday life.




A dangerous, homeless drifter who grew up picking cotton in virtual slavery. An upscale art dealer accustomed to the world of Armani and Chanel. A gutsy woman with a stubborn dream. A story so incredible no novelist would dare dream it.
It begins outside a burning plantation hut in Louisiana . . . and an East Texas honky-tonk . . . and, without a doubt, in the heart of God. It unfolds in a Hollywood hacienda . . . an upscale New York gallery . . . a downtown dumpster . . . a Texas ranch.
Gritty with pain and betrayal and brutality, this true story also shines with an unexpected, life-changing lov


 Roxanne Reeves defines her life by the committees she heads and the social status she cultivates. But she is keeping secrets that make her an outsider in her own town, always in search of acceptance. And when she is given a job none of the other white women want-researching the town's African-American history for a tour of local sites-she feels she can't say no.

Elderly Grace Clark, a retired black schoolteacher, reluctantly agrees to become Roxanne's guide. Grace takes Roxanne to Catfish Alley, whose undistinguished structures are nonetheless sacred places to the black community because of what happened there. As Roxanne listens to Grace's stories, and meets her friends, she begins to see differently. She is transported back to the past, especially to 1931, when a racist's hatred for Grace's brother leads to events that continue to change lives decades later. And as Roxanne gains an appreciation of the dreams, courage, and endurance of those she had so easily dismissed, her own life opens up in new and unexpected ways.




When Nina Revskaya puts her remarkable jewelry collection up for auction, the former Bolshoi Ballet star finds herself overwhelmed by memories of her homeland, and of the events, both glorious and heartbreaking, that changed her life half a century earlier. It was in Russia that she discovered the magic of dance and fell in love, and where, faced with Stalinist aggression, a terrible discovery incited a deadly act of betrayal—and an ingenious escape to the West.
Nina has kept her secrets for half a lifetime. But now Drew Brooks, an inquisitive associate at a Boston auction house, and Grigori Solodin, a professor who believes Nina's jewels hold the key to unlocking his past, begin to unravel her story—setting in motion a series of revelations that will have life-altering consequences for them all.


Leopold Bloom King has been raised in a family shattered—and shadowed—by tragedy. Lonely and adrift, he searches for something to sustain him and finds it among a tightly knit group of high school outsiders. Surviving marriages happy and troubled, unrequited loves and unspoken longings, hard-won successes and devastating breakdowns, as well as Charleston, South Carolina’s dark legacy of racism and class divisions, these friends will endure until a final test forces them to face something none of them are prepared for.
Spanning two turbulent decades, South of Broad is Pat Conroy at his finest: a masterpiece from a great American writer whose passion for life and language knows no bounds.



Her name was Henrietta Lacks, but scientists know her as HeLa. She was a poor Southern tobacco farmer who worked the same land as her slave ancestors, yet her cells—taken without her knowledge—became one of the most important tools in medicine. The first “immortal” human cells grown in culture, they are still alive today, though she has been dead for more than sixty years. If you could pile all HeLa cells ever grown onto a scale, they’d weigh more than 50 million metric tons—as much as a hundred Empire State Buildings. HeLa cells were vital for developing the polio vaccine; uncovered secrets of cancer, viruses, and the atom bomb’s effects; helped lead to important advances like in vitro fertilization, cloning, and gene mapping; and have been bought and sold by the billions.
Yet Henrietta Lacks remains virtually unknown, buried in an unmarked grave.







The Emperor of All Maladies is a magnificent, profoundly humane “biography” of cancer—from its first documented appearances thousands of years ago through the epic battles in the twentieth century to cure, control, and conquer it to a radical new understanding of its essence. Physician, researcher, and award-winning science writer, Siddhartha Mukherjee examines cancer with a cellular biologist’s precision, a historian’s perspective, and a biographer’s passion. The result is an astonishingly lucid and eloquent chronicle of a disease humans have lived with—and perished from—for more than five thousand years.
The story of cancer is a story of human ingenuity, resilience, and perseverance, but also of hubris, paternalism, and misperception. Mukherjee recounts centuries of discoveries, setbacks, victories, and deaths, told through the eyes of his predecessors and peers, training their wits against an infinitely resourceful adversary that, just three decades ago, was thought to be easily vanquished in an all-out “war against cancer.” The book reads like a literary thriller with cancer as the protagonist.
From the Persian Queen Atossa, whose Greek slave may have cut off her diseased breast, to the nineteenth-century recipients of primitive radiation and chemotherapy to Mukherjee’s own leukemia patient, Carla, The Emperor of All Maladies is about the people who have soldiered through fiercely demanding regimens in order to survive—and to increase our understanding of this iconic disease.
Riveting, urgent, and surprising, The Emperor of All Maladies provides a fascinating glimpse into the future of cancer treatments. It is an illuminating book that provides hope and clarity to those seeking to demystify cancer.



 At times stern, at other times patient, at times perceptive, at other times in sad denial, Olive Kitteridge, a retired schoolteacher, deplores the changes in her little town of Crosby, Maine, and in the world at large, but she doesn’t always recognize the changes in those around her: a lounge musician haunted by a past romance; a former student who has lost the will to live; Olive’s own adult child, who feels tyrannized by her irrational sensitivities; and her husband, Henry, who finds his loyalty to his marriage both a blessing and a curse.
As the townspeople grapple with their problems, mild and dire, Olive is brought to a deeper understanding of herself and her life–sometimes painfully, but always with ruthless honesty. Olive Kitteridge offers profound insights into the human condition–its conflicts, its tragedies and joys, and the endurance it requires.



It’s the early 1980s—the country is in a deep recession, and life after college is harder than ever. In the cafés on College Hill, the wised-up kids are inhaling Derrida and listening to Talking Heads. But Madeleine Hanna, dutiful English major, is writing her senior thesis on Jane Austen and George Eliot, purveyors of the marriage plot that lies at the heart of the greatest English novels.
As Madeleine tries to understand why “it became laughable to read writers like Cheever and Updike, who wrote about the suburbia Madeleine and most of her friends had grown up in, in favor of reading the Marquis de Sade, who wrote about deflowering virgins in eighteenth-century France,” real life, in the form of two very different guys, intervenes. Leonard Bankhead—charismatic loner, college Darwinist, and lost Portland boy—suddenly turns up in a semiotics seminar, and soon Madeleine finds herself in a highly charged erotic and intellectual relationship with him. At the same time, her old “friend” Mitchell Grammaticus—who’s been reading Christian mysticism and generally acting strange—resurfaces, obsessed with the idea that Madeleine is destined to be his mate.
Over the next year, as the members of the triangle in this amazing, spellbinding novel graduate from college and enter the real world, events force them to reevaluate everything they learned in school. Leonard and Madeleine move to a biology Laboratory on Cape Cod, but can’t escape the secret responsible for Leonard’s seemingly inexhaustible energy and plunging moods. And Mitchell, traveling around the world to get Madeleine out of his mind, finds himself face-to-face with ultimate questions about the meaning of life, the existence of God, and the true nature of love.

What's on your to-read list for 2012????

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Tis the Season & Some Movie/TV Show Reviews

My calendar is beginning to look a lot like Christmas!  This weekend was a blast - Haynes family Christmas, a wedding, a graduation, a graduation party, Christmas Cantata and more!  We have a Christmas Party this week, and then we leave for Georgia for Christmas with Austin's family.  Right when I get back into blogging, the tidal wave hits - but it's okay - Tis the Season!

Some friends invited us to watch a movie last night, so we went over and watched Pirates of the Caribbean - On Stranger Tides.  No, I still hadn't seen it - I'm horrible!  But again, I never had time!  But, I've seen it now!

I was a little skeptical since this movie drifted from the plot, and the characters, of the other three movies.  But it did not disappoint!  I will admit, that at one point in the movie, Jack Sparrow (the lovely and oh-so-talented Johnny Depp) was in a bind, about to be impaled on somebody's sword, and I was ready for William Turner (the equally lovely and equally talented Orlando Bloom) to sweep in and save the day, but that wasn't the case.  But I digress....

Penelope Cruz was great - and really fit in well with the existing cast.  There was one character, Philip, that was a central character I thought they could have developed a bit more, but that's just my opinion.  Of course, as is customary in a Pirates movie, there was a scene after the rolling credits.  And it totally set it up for another movie!  I'm trying not to get my hopes up, but that would be fantastic!  Anyway, if you haven't seen it, I recommend it!

A few posts ago I mentioned Pillars of the Earth.  I read Ken Follet's novel a couple of years ago, and absolutely loved it - and have read several of his books since then.  Starz made the book into a miniseries in 2010, but being a poor college student, I didn't get the channel.  Recently, it came out on Reelz, a channel we get.  Being produced on Starz, it is a little graphic, if that bothers you.  Austin semi-watched it with me, and asked me if it was true to the book.  I read it so long ago I really couldn't remember, but I do know the book focused more on the architecture than on the drama.  But that wouldn't make a very good movie, so I thought they handled mixing the two well for the show.

Love, lust, family issues, religion, politics, and even architecture and a tiny bit of history - this book/movie has it all.  I just found it on Amazon for $20 on blu ray - so tempting!

I haven't done a whole lot of cooking this week because we've been so busy, but we did make a first attempt at making crepes the other night.  It was easier than I thought it would be, but I need a better filling recipe. 


Friday, December 16, 2011

Fun on a Friday

A. Age – 23
B. Bed size – Queen
C. Chore that you hateFloors - they never stay clean!
D. Dogs – Lila Belle - Schnoodle (Schnauzer and Poodle)
E. Essential start to your day – Coffee with French Vanilla creamer
F. Favorite color – Green
G. Gold or silver –Silver..every day!
H. Height – 5’ nothin'
I. Instruments you play –Piano
J. Job title –Marketing Manager
K. Kids – Lila Belle, see above
L. Live – Vicksburg, MS
M. Mother’s name – Sue
N. Nicknames – Babe
O. Overnight hospital stays – Too many.
P. Pet peeves – Dumb drivers
Q. Quote from a movieI quote McLintock and Harry Potter on a daily basis.  Don't judge me, please.
R. Right or left handed – Right.
S. Siblingsone - Alan Jackson Haynes - yes, that's his name!
T. Time it takes you to get ready – 20 minutes, tops!
U. Underwear – Victoria's Secret ;)
Vegetable you hate – Mustard Greens
W. What makes you run late – absolutely nothing.  I am ALWAYS on time.
X. X-rays you’ve had – thumb, knee, wrist, I'm sure there are more!
Y. Yummy food you make – Would it be too vain to say everything??  LOL
Z. Zoo animal – White tigers - they are so pretty!

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

What I'm Loving Wednesday...


OPI nail polish - Get in the Espresso Lane.  I love love love this color!  It looks black in some lights, brown in others, and sometimes even gray.  I get hooked on a color, wear it for weeks or even months, and then change it.  But this one is definitely my favorite right now!

I'm so sad that all of my TV shows are on "Christmas Break."  But Revenge has me hooked - totally and completely.  I love the whole premise behind the show, Emily getting revenge on all of the people who framed her father, and I really like the whole Hamptons setting.  The characters seem a little stiff to me, but that's all a part of the Hamptons persona and the "I'm better than you" lifestyle.  The episode last wednesday left on a huge cliffhanger, and I can't wait for January!


Sephora makeup brushes
 Kat von D's mascara
Smashbox blush


I spent way too much time in Sephora a few weeks ago and got new makeup.  And let me tell you, I needed it!  I hadn't bought makeup in YEARS!  But these are my favorite things that I got.  I love the blush, especially because it goes on so easily and looks so natural.  I also have an eyeliner that I love.  It's Makeup Forever, and I use it all the time.  It stays on all day and never smears or smudges off.  I never leave the house without eyeliner and mascara, so these are great!

 This dress from Loft.  Well, I love anything that comes from Loft, really, but this one right now.  I got it while we were in New Orleans after Thanksgiving.  It's comfortable and warm and appropriate for everything.  Most sweater dresses are not form flattering, but the cinched waist makes it more feminine and gives it a nice shape.  Just add some black tights and cute black boots, and you're set to go!


Monday, December 12, 2011

2 Year Anniversary

Two years ago, I married my best friend!  It was a very stressful weekend -- we had just finished finals, Austin got a ticket on the way to Bastrop, all of the groomsmen and fraternity brothers got DEATHLY ill, and it was cold and rainy.  But, at the end of the day, it didn't matter, and we were married!  And two years later, we still are too! 

Here are a few of my favorite pics:



Happy Anniversary babe!  I love you!

Sunday Review (a day late)


I started this post a few months ago, but never finished it!




My mother-in-law recently asked me where I got my “to-read” list.  And the answer is – I love lists!  I frequently check the best seller lists on Amazon, the New York Times, Oprah’s Book lists – any place I can get ideas on what to read next!  This book popped up on several of my lists, and it sounded interesting, so I picked it up at the library a few weeks ago.  I was going to start it, but Austin was going out of town, I’m a big scaredy-cat, and one look at the pictures inside was enough for me to put it down! 

However, this weekend was a perfectly sunny weekend, so I grabbed a cup of coffee and started it on Saturday morning.  Once you get past the first 5-6 pages, It’s obvious that the book is not scary or creepy like I thought! 

Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children is the story of Jacob finding himself through discovering his grandfather’s past.   His grandfather showed him pictures of “peculiar” children his entire childhood, and Jacob dismissed him, thinking the pictures were fake.  After his grandfather’s mysterious death, Jacob goes to place his grandfather grew up to look for answers to his death.  What he finds is very “peculiar” indeed!

I normally don’t like the sci-fi, time travel-type books, but I really enjoyed this one.  It’s easy to follow – no jumping around, and hooks you in – you can’t stop reading!  You have to find out what happens!  The characters are colorful and even relatable in some cases.  This book was in the young adult section of our library, but as most young adult novels go, there’s always something deeper.  It was a perfect weekend read!

Friday, December 9, 2011

Fantastic Food Friday


I get stuck in a rut where I don’t try to cook anything different – I just use the same old recipes that I’m comfortable with making.  A few weeks ago, we picked up a package of pork chops at the grocery store on sale.  Well, there’s only a certain amount of times you can eat a grilled pork chop before throwing in the towel.  So I went on a hunt for some new pork chop recipes.  And I found this one on http://www.bellalimento.com:

Pork Chops in Cream Sauce
Ingredients:
                Butter
                Olive Oil
                4 porkchops
                1 cup Marsala wine
                1 tsp. Flour
                1 cup of whipping cream/half and half
                Sliced mushrooms
                Salt and pepper to taste

Melt a few tablespoons of butter and the olive oil in a pan.  Season the pork chops with salt and pepper, and brown in the pan, turning as needed.  When they’re done, take them out of the pan, but keep them warm (my handy dandy warming drawer came in handy).  Next, deglaze the pan with wine, and simmer to reduce by half.  Meanwhile, stir the flour into the whipping cream.  Add to pan.  Simmer for 5 minutes, whisking everything together.  Add in the sliced mushrooms.*  Simmer for another 5 minutes until mushrooms are nice and soft.  Lastly, put pork chops back in the pan, and turn to coat in the sauce.

The sauce is sooooo good!  I made rice pilaf to go with it, but Austin and I decided plain white rice would be good too, and use the sauce as gravy.  This is definitely going to be one of my staples from now on!

*I forgot to get mushrooms at the store, so I didn’t put them in there.  But Austin loves them, so I’ll add them next time J

An oldie but a goodie:
Cowboy Cookies
My roommate in college used to make these all the time, and I was hooked!  I found the recipe in a book Austin’s grandmother gave us, and I’ve been making them ever since!  The great thing about these cookies, is that the recipe is just a base, and then you can add in anything you like – coconut, nuts, chocolate chips, toffee, -- anything your heart desires!

 Brownedeyedbaker.com

Ingredients:
1 cup Crisco
1 cup light brown sugar
1 cup white sugar
2 eggs
1 tsp vanilla
2 cups All Purpose flour
1 tsp baking soda
½ tsp salt
½ tsp baking powder
2 cups oats
6 oz chocolate chips

Cream Crisco and sugars.  Add in eggs and vanilla.  Then add flour.  Stir in oats and chocolate chips, and anything else you desire.  Sometimes I add pecans, but I just didn’t feel like it last night!  Spoon dough onto cookie sheet.  Bake for 8-10 minutes (I baked mine longer because I made bigger cookies).  Enjoy! 

LOVE LOVE LOVE these cookies!  I had one for breakfast this morning.  Hey – what’s the different in that and Cookie Crisp Cereal????  At least mine had oats in it!!!!!

As my hero Paula Deen would say, “Love and Best Dishes, from my kitchen, to yours!”

katie


P.S.  One day I’m going to remember to take my own pictures of the stuff I make – but don’t hold your breath!

Thursday, December 8, 2011

March 23, 2012

Austin and I have a date night set - March 23, 2012.  We're going to see The Hunger Games whether he likes it or not!  I can't wait for the movie to come out!  I've mentioned how much I love the books before - they are addicting. 
  
With Harry Potter over (sad day) and the last Twilight movie approaching (who cares?) critics say this is destined to be the new movie fan craze.  Can't say that I blame them - the story lines are fantastic.  
 

Jennifer Lawrence is playing Katniss.  The only thing I've really seen her in is Bill Engvall's comedy series, but I know she will be great!  Here's another promo shot:

 
So I guess this means I'm going to have to start re-reading the series so I can be fully prepared for the movies!  Usually, I'm not really big on books being made into movies (like the first few Harry Potter's) but the more advanced technology gets, the more lifelike and creative the movies are.  
So many books are being made into movies now -- I'm actually watching the Pillars of the Earth mini-series this week on Reelz.  The book is by Ken Follett.  The series is really good, but it makes a lot more sense for someone who has read the book.  
 

If you haven't, it is about a mason who has dreams to build a cathedral in England -- and it's about the politics, romance, architecture, and overall drama that happens during the building of the Cathedral.  Like I said, they've done a great job with the mini-series, but of course the character profiles are more pronounced in the book, and the whole premise of the book is the relationships between all of the characters.  The book is great if you like architecture and history.  I'm really into historical fiction right now and Ken Follett is a fantastic historical fiction writer.  I just finished his sequel to Pillars of the Earth and his new-ish book, and the first of another series, called "Fall of Giants."  But more on that later!